Boy George was initially against releasing it as a single, fearing it was "too personal". He wrote the lyrics about his tumultuous secret relationship with Jon Moss and former partner Kirk Brandon. Recommended Reading
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For an in-depth look at the definitive piece is The Guardian's "How we made" feature . This article includes rare, firsthand accounts from Boy George and drummer Jon Moss , detailing how a simple drum machine rhythm evolved into a global reggae-pop hit. Why the Song Mattered “I think what some don't realise is that