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Sometimes we are vague because being fully understood feels vulnerable. If they truly "see" us and still don't like us, that’s scarier than being misunderstood. 2. Auditing Your Communication

One person often wants to be "fixed" (logic), while the other just wants to be "felt" (emotion). you_dont_understand_me

Before fixing the problem, it helps to understand why the "signal" gets lost between the sender and the receiver: Sometimes we are vague because being fully understood

Sometimes the "void" of not being understood can be partially filled by validating yourself. You don't always need a witness to make your feelings real. Summary Table: Closing the Gap you_dont_understand_me